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[calamityCons]

First of all, don’t.

[BrobyDDark]

How to die

Wait many decades and eventually...

But before that, why would you want to know? Is something up? Wanna talk about it?

[Shitpost Lizard]

Go back in time and stop your parents from boning, thereby cancelling your existence to begin with.

[loomingDoom]

Help me with dating a cute and sexy troll

[syrupsand]

Help me with dating a cute and sexy troll

1. Rawr xD
2. ???
3. Profit

[loomingDoom]

Hmmm yes yes, excellent advice. I shall try it

[Shitpost Lizard]

Help me with dating a cute and sexy troll

I'm a bit old-fashioned
but get access to a high-profile site and replace everything with the pain series.

Can't guarantee you the "cute and sexy" part though.

[loomingDoom]

What's the pain series?

[Shitpost Lizard]

What's the pain series?

I would just tell you not to look it up, but people have a tendency to look up stuff when they're told not to look it up.

It's a bunch of shock images and gore that people used to either post on sites, or link to.

[harmoniousCalamity]

How to deal with anger? Petty stuff like anger over an argument, or over something small going wrong. Anger management isn't my strong suit.

I've dealt with anger issues all my life---biggest tip I can give you is to really, truly just step back from the conversation and walk away. Seriously. Just leave them on read, ignore them, cool off, and once you're done with that try to deescalate the convo. It's not going to be an easy thing to do and I get that, but it's something that the more you forcefully do, the easier it will eventually get.

Also I'm seeing another post in the same thread by you as well, explaining your focusing issues. I...would consider talking to your doctor about these issues, because as far as focusing goes, it's not something you can force and you can't make yourself 'take in' information.

Because to me, as someone who has ADHD-I (or type two, pretty much what was ADD), it sure sounds like you are dealing with two of the bigger symptoms of ADHD which are: emotional regulation issues(the anger issues), and focusing/prioritizing issues. And while you can work on these symptoms with out professional help, I personally wouldn't suggesting doing that on your own, as I've had to do that myself as a child growing up, and it was incredibly difficult.

My suggestion would to be go talk to your doctor about your issues, explain how they impact your life, make you feel, and how you are struggling and for how long this has been on going. See if you can get into therapy even, preferably try to get a therapist who acknowledges ADHD as a real thing(because some don't think it is real!), because if you do end up having ADHD or something else with in that vein, the therapist would still be able to give you appropriate coping/ over all mechanisms that will be able to help.

(Also medication may or may not be on the table for you, I personally wouldn't be afraid of the medication if it is suggested for you. But I personally don't have a good experience with the one medication I was on, and can't really offer advice on it?)